Polite way to decline vacationing with other couples? - couples only cruises
We would like to travel a lot, and I'd recommend to friends and demand that vacations together, but my husband and I will only go on holiday. It's more relaxing, we have to other people, and of course romantic. Finally gave in and went with another couple on a cruise, and even if it was a game we do not care to do again, but they demand. I do not know how to politely refuse, especially when it comes to places that you plan to ring, to join us go.
Monday, February 1, 2010
Couples Only Cruises Polite Way To Decline Vacationing With Other Couples?
8 comments:
Tell them you need to go to swingers meeting of anonymity. (Note that it may breach can be productive.)
I fully understand where you come from! Unfortunately, the family members who could join us, and then they want to borrow money to make the trip. I had to learn to tell them that we want our own holiday. To his friends, perhaps a preface by saying that they really enjoy their holidays with them, but you and your husband time with others.
Tell them travel in the days.
Difficult as it once was. Whatever you say, it is probably a shadow of suspicion in the minds of his friends. I want to be myself as honestly as possible, you say that you enjoyed the trip, but that's not really yours and you will do something only two this year alone.
And, of course, let's hand, not to mention their travel plans or general, if you are with them.
The way I see it has 3 options
1. Tell them the truth and offending risk
2. Inventing a lame excuse to explore and the opportunity and not be offended then, but the damage is still scope for the lie.
3. Find training on the idea that you do not want to go with them.
If it were me, I would with the option of one (1)
With so-called sandwich method as new to them, here's how it works
1. Start with a positive spin ( "Joan ........ Tim and I love you and Fred. We have so much fun. Please note that time, Fred, ran into the street in their underwear, because we it was also reasonable? It was very funny.)
2. Then Tim (is negative, and I think our next holiday and you want to go somewhere to revive "our relationship again:" We go somewhere romantic, but we both want to spend a little time.
3. The always end with another positive (we are all such good friends, and if he wantsPublished on weekends, when you're ready for a double date)
Please excuse the cliche story, but I think the idea.
Positive, negative and positive, and used to not even know that they rejected.
Good luck
to say that this is something Anniv ...
Say that you love, but her husband wants a more intimate experience. If you can not blame your husband, you could say that this trip should be, a romantic weekend and have already planned for two. Another thing you can do is think about the other partners on the best dinner in a restaurant instead. If you rent, do something else, can feel rejected.
Sorry, I do not think
no explanation is necessary
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